Wednesday, August 6, 2008

The Coveted Hot Spot

Hey you all!! So this G-Spot fascination...what is it all about? The G-Spot was "discovered" by Ernst Gräfenberg, a German gynecologist, around 1950. (He is also the supporter of female ejaculation!) The G-Spot in women is located on the front of the vaginal wall. With her lying on her back, insert a finger or two, pads of finger(s) facing up, or towards her belly button, and it's about two to three inches up and feels slightly spongy. Try different strokes or massaging techniques to see what makes her feel good. There is a theory that not all women have a g-spot. This is still debated and the only way you are going to find out is by exploration! Sounds like fun, huh? The g-spot orgasm is much deeper and more intense.
Guys, you also have a g-spot! "Say what?!", you may's true! The prostate gland is now recognized by numerous sexperts and doctors as the male g-spot. The easiest way to access it is through anal stimulation, and some guys, just like women, have reservations regarding anal stimulation. Ladies, if your partner is up for it, read on to find out how to stimulate it. Using lots of lube, insert a finger into his anus, with the pad of your finger facing is testicles. About two to three inches up, you should feel a rough patch about the size of a walnut. Try different techniques to see what pleases him. Have him tell you what feels good and take it slow. Unless he is used to it, anal stimulation can take some getting used to...for both parties.
If you are going to explore each other's g-spots, make sure you have plenty of time uninterrupted, plenty of lighting (but not harsh girls prefer softer lighting) and plenty of lube. Toys are also fun for g-spot exploration in both men and women. Just make sure to keep the lines of communication open and have a "safe" word or a word that, when spoken by either party, can call a halt to the action in case either party gets uncomfortable or needs to stop for any reason. This is a great thing to have for anytime you are trying something new and different, with someone new or a long-term partner. Either way, it's all about having fun and feeling good, so make sure you have a ball!! (Pun totally intended!)

Kisses xxx