Tuesday, June 16, 2009


Sorry for the hiatus, guys! Today's topic? Masturbation. I know I've covered this topic before, but I felt it important to revisit the subject. Masturbation is important in so many ways. It helps us to learn pleasure. It helps us to teach our partners how to pleasure us. It fills in on those cold and dark nights when you and your partner are apart. I could go on and on...but it is also important to understand masturbation. Ever hear of too much of a good thing? Masturbation can fall under that category. There is such a thing as too much masturbation. Masturbating too often can hinder the pleasure you receive from your partner. When you masturbate too often, your body starts to accept pleasure in only the way you pleasure it. It becomes used to receiving pleasure in only one way and gets to where it doesn't recognize pleasure from other sources. So, having a problem being pleased by your partner?? Think about your masturbating habits. Try limiting yourself to once a week and increasing the number of sexual encounters with your partner. Give it time...eventually you will train your body to accept pleasure from other sources again. On the flip side, too little masturbation can cause your body to forget how to accept pleasure. Too often, we get into ruts. We don't have time for much of anything pleasurable, let alone self-indulgence. When our body stops receiving pleasure regularly, it forgets what pleasure feels like and an 'off' switch gets flipped. The solution? Start masturbating once a week. Learn what feels good to you and let your partner know. Take your time and be can't teach your body overnight. Remember: too much of one thing can lead to disastrous end results.
Kisses xxx